Adult Dating Info: Why Is Breaking Up So Difficult?

Hi Readers,

by Natasha Thomas

Why is breaking up so hard sometimes? If we aren't happy, why can't we just pack up our emotions and clothes and hit the door running? I often wondered . . .

1. Memories

Do you recall when the relationship was young and exciting? You miss that, don't you?

I've been there. The reluctance to let go of the past and move on is one of the main reasons why I've had trouble letting go in the past.

I remember when the romance was young and exciting and probably hope that the feeling will return.

Sometimes though, we have to realize that people have changed or our bitterness in a relationship gone sour will prevent the reestablishment of those feelings.

Our memories of good times keep us hoping that those times may return.

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2. Afraid Of The Unknown

If we just stay where we are . . . we at least know we won't lose what we have . . . right?

WRONG!

You may still lose whatever unsatisfying relationship you are in . . . You also prevent yourself from finding something even better.

Believe me when I write that I've been soooo guilty of letter the fear of the unknown prevent me from letting go . . . breaking things off and moving on with my life.

3. Don't Know Where To Find Someone Special

I was in a relationship for several years, with the last year of it being miserable.

The respect and affection were gone. The feelings fled soon after.

The relationship had died.

Did I leave? No.

Why? I hadn't met anyone else to compel me . . . motivate me to leave. Sounds strange? It's really not.

I've met a number of people who've done the same thing.

The "something is better than nothing" attitude seems to keep us in bad relationships.

I won't let it any longer.

In the age of online dating we don't have to! Thankfully.

People of quality are just a few clicks away.